How To Become The Man, Your Own Ideal Man
There are a lot of man that ask themselves, “am I truly the man I was born to be?” It is an age old question we ask ourselves. One of the reasons that man find themselves asking themselves this very question comes from uncertainty. Uncertainty from the changes and challenges we each must face every day. But there are some that know the secret. The secret, “on being a man.” How to become the man, your own ideal man.
I want to tell you a story, and take a moment and think does this seem familiar. I was out the other night with a bunch of guys, and this gorgeous girl walked into the restaurant. She was well beyond being a perfect 10. I mean every guy in the place had their eyes on her. She confidently walked over to the bar, and took a seat by herself. It was clear every guy in the place was continuing to check her out, but were clearly too shy to approach.
Now some of the men, clearly were motivated not to approach because they were either with their wives/girlfriends, or they had a wife or girlfriend at home. But for the single men in the place, and even some of the men who already had something, it was just understood that it was fear and uncertainty keeping these men from talking to her. We all know the thoughts men experience, “she’s probably already taken,” “she just wouldn’t be interested,” “I wouldn’t know what to say”… I mean there are probably thousands of things us men have thought and worried about when it comes to approaching attractive women.
However, it’s not just when it comes to women that these limiting beliefs effect us. I mean each of the guys I was with that night are good performers in each of their chosen careers. Yet, often even when talking about work, there are often times in conversations there is talk of hesitance or “missed opportunities.” “Limiting beliefs” are a natural defense mechanism that people are born with. It had been thoroughly studied in evolutionary and developmental psychology. In fact it is often cited as coming from our “fight or flight” responses, and/or from how our brains and minds are developed to maintain peak efficiency.
Basically we know that one of the most desired traits a man could have is confidence. Yet, even men that display the trait of confidence can often have times of showing a lack of confidence. How many times can you think of where a star athlete has choked under the pressure of a big game, or an idol or hero of yours lost their confidence and just didn’t perform to their usual levels. I know guys that can have huge confidence in their careers, and have no confidence when it comes to talking to women; or, men who are confident talking to women and when it comes to their career or job they have no confidence.
Even with all the research out there, and available to men, it seems most men take confidence as an either you have or you don’t attitude. This might come from a lack of knowledge of where to begin. Or, maybe its a lack to time or desire to actually do a little research themselves. However, there is a much easier way, and it can literally change your life. You see once you are able to understand what confidence is, how its developed, and how easy it is to use, you can literally call up that “unbreakable confidence” on demand.
There are a lot of different books and programs out there that will teach you a few simple tricks to be successful with women, or how to become a successful. There are even some that will try to teach you “how to become a man.” Yet, almost all of these will leaving you lacking with the most important ingredient of “being a man,” and that is confidence.
Take for example all those great seduction courses out there. They will teach you a lot about how a woman thinks, probably some ideas of how to talk to a woman, and maybe even some cool body language tricks. However, all these tools and skills are worth nothing if you haven’t achieved the confidence to use them. Most of these programs, will expect you to go out and use these tools and skills regularly with women, in the hopes you’ll be able to “fake it until you make it.” However, this can also work against you. What if on the first few times of using these new skills women don’t respond well. What do you think will happen to your confidence?
That is why getting your “unbreakable confidence,” is the most important part. With unbreakable confidence you can choose whether to use those skills, or you will have the confidence to be natural and get her attention with a simple “hello.” What if you become the man with “unbreakable confidence” at work? How much further could you go in your job or career? Or, “becoming a man” with confidence to go out and take on the risk and challenge of becoming financially independent, by starting your own business.
You see confidence is not about not having fears or doubts. Or, even about never having a limiting belief pop up in your mind. Its about learning to control them. And, I have spent hundreds of hours and thousands of dollars trying to learn how to have that edge as a man. And, I have come across a program that will give you that edge.
The edge you need to “become the man you were born to be.” You see as a man you are an individual, so your idea of what the ideal man is, is very different then what another man’s ideal man is. But when you have unbreakable confidence in yourself, you will have the edge you need to become what you want to be, and that is your own ideal man.
This program was developed by a man that knows a lot. He is well know in a lot of different groups. He goes by the name Hypnotica, which is a name he had when we started out in the “pickup artist community.” He has not only established a name for himself in the pickup artist communities, he is also a successful entrepreneur and public speaker. And, he has been doing this for a while.
The most important thing you can ask yourself right now is, “do you want to become the man you were born to be?” I promise you two things, you can continue down the road you are on right now, and you have a 50/50 chance of achieving that success; or, you can recognize the opportunity you have in front of you and get the unbreakable confidence you will need to succeed in all aspects of your life. Confidence in being the man you want to be, were born to be. Confidence in your choices, your career, talking to new people, and living your own dream life.
I wish this course had been available years ago when I first started out, as it gave me the tools that opened up so many doors in my life. This program literally was able to give me the secret keys to being able to understand and implement so many of the things I had read, learnt, and watched, while grinding away trying to become my own ideal man. It caused an awakening inside me, that gave me the confidence I wanted in all aspects of my life. My relationships and my career have improved dramatically, and I finally had the confidence I needed to pursue my dreams of financial independence.
Become the man you want to be. Be the ideal man you were born to be. This program will help you change your life.
